Happy IWSG Day!
This is the day we all dust off our blogs, fears, and insecurities and chat!
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Today I wanted to talk about how to know if you’re taking it too easy on yourself, or going too hard. (No, I don’t have solid answers—that’s why I’m insecure about it. 😉)
Background on me. I started self-publishing in March 2015
(Yay—just realized this is year eight! Still confused 😉).
Up until Dec 2020, I was also working full-time in a soul-sucking job.
I’m telling you this so you don’t think that I’m living a magic life being a full-time writer—I am now, but got 14 books out while working full-time (to be fair a few were either done, or close to being—they all needed edits). I fought for my writing time then.
In Dec 2020, the university I worked at offered a buyout for some of us who were within retirement time for them. Not a great deal, but I found I liked my sanity and peace of mind, so getting out was the best option.
Switching to full-time isn’t as easy as folks think. When you’re used to fighting for writing time, and now you don’t need to, it can leave you fumbling around. I also think that my evil day job’s evilness motivated me to write those books!
Plus, while I hated the job, I enjoyed many of my coworkers and guess what you don’t have as a full-time writer? Yeah—co-workers. No cheery chats as you come in, no lunch time complaining sessions. I still miss it and them.
Then there is the 'how am I going to be a full-time writer' question? So many options! Once I got
over leaving the EDJ (Evil Day Job), I started looking at how to work my writing business.
I’ve been in the work force a long time, so having two days off a week is normal for me. I know some writers write every day, but I need those two days off. I now have one business day as I realized that I get thrown off way too easily by business stuff and having those issues on a writing day doesn’t work.
I have my schedule. I’m giving myself time off, a full business day, annnnnnnnnnnnd I still feel squished. I think there’s an issue of pushing hard as a full-time writer to show folks (even if only in your head) that you are WORKING. And I think that’s what’s happening.
I was with a fellow author last week and we were talking about what we were doing. I told her my general year plan. Then said, or not. But laughed, indicating I was planning on pushing myself regardless.
She looked at me and said, “Or you could take a few things off your plate.”
I brushed her off with a “I’m fine.” But those words hit me. I think I’m pushing
so hard because I need to prove I can do it (and money, never forget money—it’s
crass, but my retirement is far too small to live on).
Now I’m not sure what to do to balance things.
I have a few days off coming up, so I’ll do some thinking. Like my adding my business day, I need to find a way to adjust my mindset and working habits. Without compromising my goals too much.
How about you? Full or part time—what do you do when you think your goals might be overwhelming you?
Have a great IWSG day!